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The recent discussion on warnings and triggers has gotten me to thinking a bit, and instead of contributing in a major way to the discussion at large, I thought it might be time to post my personal warnings policy.

Introduction )
Warning Labels )
Kink Labels )
Ratings Line )
Final Notes )

-bs
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I can't believe I haven't done this since before C19.  2020 just went to heck in a handbasket, didn't it?  I feel like we're still climbing out of that mess.  For a number of reasons, this will be a lot shorter than the last few times, mostly because I'm trying to make it achievable, hah.  In between 2020 and now, my prior roommate moved out, I've done some house painting, and my old dog died, and I got a new dog.  New!dog is the definition of 'impish child', lol.  And now, on with the show.




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-boogieshoes, the busy
 

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So I'm a little late this year doing this, but I had a really lazy holiday, and enjoyed most of it.  As is normal, I'm taking the old list and updating it for this year, which means it won't change all that much, especially as this functions mainly as a reminder of things I need to work on. 

Household Maintenance )


Household Updates )

 
Garden Plans )


Landscaping )

 

SCA skill sets )

 

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.... it really made me giggle to see my order of Aida cloth come in a package marked 'Do Not Bend'!

-boogie, the easily-humored
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Well, I finally get to play garage tetris with all the stuff we picked up for the hurricane.  I'm not sure why, but garage tetris is so satisfying, lol.

Have someone coming over to put a belt on the lawnmower, so we can start mowing again.

Possibly will make a run to the big blue box for some garden dirt to see if i can plant winter squash and some veggies.  I feel like i'm a little late for this, but here's hoping....

-boogie, the busy
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.... and this Sally also sells power outs, downed tree limbs, and $1200 generators....

Other than being bored spitless for a few days, and less than wonderfully comfy, I'm fine, the house is fine, the roomie's fine, the dogs are fine.   The generator was woefully under-utilized, and ran like a champ.  I need to hunt for a box tomorrow to organize and pack cords, lanterns, extra water jugs....  While I'm doing this, I need to remember to get some fuel stabilizer and fly strips.  For all that the generator is oversized, I'm very happy with it.  Relatively easy to use and operate.  Roomie and I are going to re-arrange the garage this weekend, so we can put the generator away neatly.  I still don't understand why, in an area with few to no basements, a distinct lack of high-pitch roofs, the builders also pass on both closet space and decently sized garages.   I have a 1-car, which is undersized for the house.  But I feel like every house down here, because of the total lack of 'normally used for storage' areas, should have at least a 1.5 or 2 car garage.  Instead, it seems like you're luck to get a 1 car, and a rediculous amount of times you end up with a car port, not even a closed-in garage area.  It's.... weird.

Anyway.  I'm back.  And tired.  And def taking a HOT shower tonight, followed by a COLD shower and cool bed.

-boogie
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And here's the To-Do List for 2019.  Major goal this year is to start making serious efforts to replace things that need replacing.

Maintaining the household maintenance )




Updating the house is a never-ending project... )



I want a garden of candy canes! )




LANDSCAPING )



SCA skills )


Stitching Fever! )




Fannish Endeavors )


Personal Administration )




Health Maintenance )



Furniture Projects )



Wishlist )

So, we got some new stuff, and got rid of some old stuff, which is about the way it's supposed to be.

-boogieshoes, the busy
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So, here's my yearly round-up post.  I know a lot of these To-Do/ To-Done lists tend to stay the same year-in and year out, but it's still a good idea for me to review them.  This year, I said I was going to emphasize household repairs.... um.... you didn't hold me to that, right?

Maintained the household, but not improved... )
Household is holding... )


Garden plans had to be adjusted on the fly )


Some landscaping improvements happened )


SCA skills elude me... )

Stitching Accomplishments do not mean Stitching Finishes... )


Fannishness...  )

I'm personally... not very organized... )


Here's to my health! )

I can't make furniture )

Wishlist Fullfillment )

-boogieshoes, in review

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So I recently, due to family interest in the event, read about the Children's Blizzard and it was an eye-opener.   And also... I'm no looking at every cold front out of the north with suspicion.  Of course, since it's getting down to 29F tonight in Mobile, AL, I'm not sure that's the wrong idea!

-boogieshoes, cuddled under some blankies

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That's pounds, and it's a weight I haven't seen in years.  I'm happy, because 250 lbs has been my boogiemonster limit in my attempts to lose weight, almost always seemed impossible to crack.  And I'm frustrated, because every jerk who says 'oh, it's just calories in less than calories out, easy!' has NO F$CKING IDEA.  I was hovering just above 250lbs for 4 *months* since I've started concentrating on weight loss efforts in May.  It's never *just* calories in < calories out.

Someone on reddit asked the other day for weight-loss strategies that *worked*, and all the answer he got were CICO, it's easy!  I wanted to tell him/her that the first thing he *really* needs to do is get his/her head on straight.  Item number 1 in a weight loss program is figuring out why and when you put on the weight.  Trying to lose the 30lbs you gained because you had 3 kids and can't figure out when to go to the gym in between everyone's sports and band activities is way different than trying to lose the 100+ pounds you put on in an effort to hide from predators because you were physically, psychologically, or sexually abused.  It's not always going to be one or the other, it could be a number of things, but if you're larger because you have things that trigger emotional eating, or because the weight is your solution to some other, deeper trauma, you need to understand *that* before you'll ever get near success, let alone sustained success. Your own brain is a past master at getting you to do things you don't intend, and you have to understand and disentangle that before you'll be happy losing weight.

Item number 2 on anyone's weight loss journey should be visiting the endocrinologist, one who specializes in diabetes/ thyroid/ autoimmune disorders/ etc.  I'm not saying a lot of people have thyroid disorders or what-have-you, but there are a number of salts and hormones in your body that influence weight loss and weight gain, and fighting against you're own body is a losing proposition.

The endo can probably also explain to you things like how blood types affect optimal diet, and how different metabolisms are tuned to utilizing different molecules (fat molecules vs carb molecules) best for your energy source.

Item number 3 on my list is logging, but log *what* you eat, not how much.  Don't worry about counting calories at first.  First thing is to start or make sure you're eating a healthy diet. 

And the whole way, be gentle with yourself.  Changing habits is hard.  Getting in shape is hard, especially when you're worried about your knees, or when everything hurts.  If you fall off the wagon, don't berate yourself.  Just remember tomorrow is another opportunity to stick to your plan.

-boogie, thinky
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Abbie jumped up on the bed by herself last night - my bed is on stilts, so it's higher than average, and she has to get some speed up to jump that high.  And she got off of it just fine via the usual route of stepping down on the blanket chests at the end of the bed and from there to the floor.  I love my dog...

-boogie
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... a beautiful brutal thing.   I'm here on New Mexico among the mountain bones for a business trip.  It's the only really 'brown' desert I've ever seen, and even so, everywhere there's plant life.  and also, people life.  last time i was this way, there was a good stretch of undeveloped land between El Paso and Las Cruces..... not anymore!  it's kind of exploded around here, people wise.

and yet the mountain bones remain:  sere, brutal, beautiful.

-boogieshoes
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I was idly thinking about the Magnificent 7.5 AU i started long ago, and may even finish the first story of.  Some day.

When I was a young fan-girl, and The Sentinel was still fresh and awesome and so completely fandom's little black dress, a woman named Susan created a GDP AU of the Sentinel... and I ate it up.  And it was my not-so-secret fetish for a while. And then I started to pick apart the holes, because that's what I do when I'm really fascinated and in love with an idea.  Basically, if I start picking it apart, you know I really like it.  So the GDP AU was kind of awesome, and should have really showcased how bad a Guide's life could get in the universe set-up, but I noticed some things like... Blair was the only Guide who was ever abused, despite a governmental institution ripe for abuse that was very obviously corrupt and full of corruption.  Every other Guide's relationship with their Sentinel was nearly glowingly perfect.  Yet the exposition and GDP set-up made it a point that the Guides were in a very precarious position, kept imprisoned and chained to their Sentinels in law if not in physical iron.  It was weird to see a system where you *know* power-hungry assholes would get off on abuse of power, and in fact, the in-universe history pretty explicitly detailed cases of it, but it was never shown on-screen except for with the GDP Guards....

Now there's another show at this time called Renegade.... featuring the lovely Lorenzo Lamas.  And being the young fan-girl crushing on Lamas' magnificent chest (I sh*t you not, I think the first 3 episodes never showed the man in a shirt under his vest), I *of course* was thinking it'd be cool to show someone else's life being turned upside down due to the GDP rules - a Guide for Reno Raines (played by Lamas)! heh, and guess who would have an angsty Unrequited love crush but his female Guide!  Who would be a variation of me, of course.  Because fan-girl crushes.*

Fast forward a few years, and an older-but-hopefully-wiser fan-woman is binge-watching Renegade, grinning and giggling about how cute Lamas was back in the day.  And I got to thinking... in the Mag 7.5 AU, which I've been noodling about lately, I should totally make every new Guide I introduce girl-boy-girl-boy-etc... you know, keep the cast even.  Well, I've already got Chris's Guide pegged as a girl, and I had a random thought that Reno could actually be a damn good partner with an ex-military guy... which would be an interesting story in and of itself**....

But this means I have a really good excuse to drool over a younger Lorenzo Lamas again, and brush up on my Renegade... and I have ZERO problem with watching a cute man with a nice chest! :)

-boogieshoes, contentedly drooling over Lamas


*Incidentally, it's a really, really good thing I like to build in my head before this stuff ever makes it to paper.  talk about drawer-fic...
**It also means that the Guide on Ryan Kelly's team, if I'm allowed to borrow them, is going to wind up being another female***
***It also means this post has gone from light and funny to more serious than it was ever meant to be.  I swear, I can kill a laugh at the comedy show!
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well, abbie survived being alone while me and roomie were at work better than i did.  i was worried about her all day. of course, she was fine.  didn't move too much, which is to be expected, but she had gotten up enough to lumber off her bed in the living room and onto the wood floor.  she wouldn't wear the cone of shame, so before he left (roomie leaves a lot later than i), i had roomie put one of my pillows over her front legs so her head could rest on it.  since a lot of her licking is anxiety-based, i figured a strong smell of 'mom' would help.  Roomie said it helped right away - she obviously recognized it and was happy to sleep with it.

i feel like the swelling is down in her ankle and paw, and it isn't hot to the touch, but not cool, either.  the skin looks pink and healthy.  her skin is naturally mottled under her hair, so it can be a little difficult to tell bruising from normal skin.  but she was feeling good enough to bark at the little dogs when roomie took them out to pee. So that's good.  The big issue now will be to get her to pee outside tonight - she doesn't like storms, and it's raining intermittently and her paw hurts, so she may not really want to go out.  And I can't carry her, although I can help her stand up. 

Overall, things going well.  But I think if I hadn't bleached my hair 2 saturdays ago, it would have turned white 2 days ago anyway. >.>

-boogieshoes, overly worried dog-mom
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i was going to work on breaking her of the habit of chasing after cars and trucks when we're in the front yard today.  unfortunately, at one point, i was concentrating on something, and she was closer to the road than i thought, and a truck came through.... and she jumped *at* it, instead of running beside it.  definitely got hurt on her paw, and ankle, and a couple nicks on her head, but she'll be fine. 

fortunately, the drivers stopped and helped me get the dog in the car - great dane girl weighs more than a 100 lbs! - and roomie drove us to the emergency vet clinic.  i was pretty upset, because i'm the one who lets her off-leash when i work outside :(. 

she is currently being held overnight for observation, and i fully expect the cone of shame tomorrow when she comes home.  and maybe some serious spoiling and petting and i'm already half-way planning to sleep on the floor with her, because she's not gonna want to jump on the bed like normal....

damned dog scared the sh*t out of me.

-boogieshoes
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I've been completely plotzed the last few days, which really sucks, actually.  The weather has finally shifted from 'inside the sun' to 'seasonally appropriate (ie, fall)' temperatures and it's perfect to go out and *do* stuff.... except i'm feeling too zonked.  I can't even stay in and stitch.

I'm not sure this is completely related to low thyroid levels, but it might be.  Labs from my primary care doc came back showing low levels, so my dose went up.  This is normal for hypothyroid folks.... the 'roid slows down production and tapers off, so the hormone dose goes up.  It does make sense I'm feeling tired if my thyroid hormone is low.... and also if i'm having an adrenaline let-down over something, or low iron, or....

Mostly, though, it's frustrating.  But because of that, I'm kind of thinking of taking a 3 week vacay for Christmas this year.  To stay home and *do* stuff, because I just need to takes some time and do it.

In other news, I'm gearing up for my first big HAED.  Heaven and Earth Designs specializes in LARGE, COMPLICATED patterns.  Big as in, thinking about doing it on 14ct, which means it's end up 3ft by 2ft and a bit.  I'm thinking about trying out different threads for various parts, in order to get different textural feels.  It's going to be the Black Stallion cover painting by Ruth Sanderson.  Currently thinking Perle Cotton #5 for the horse, regular thread for the sky and rock the horse is standing on.  I might try to go further with the changes and try tapestry wools on the rock, but that may be taking things a bit too far.  In any case, if this is the route I go, I definitely need to find a substitute for 032-colored kreinik braid #4.... which is a metallic pearl white.  I've got a couple ideas, but we'll see.  I do know that the #4 braid simply won't work when I scale it up like that.

-boogie, noodling
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according to the calendar it is!  and that's... hard to believe.  I have, however, decided on a theme for this year's Mag7 prompt fest - zombies.... which may be a repeat, but i hope not.

in other news, i've moved out of my old computer and upgraded to a tablet... which has a smaller screen, but more capability.  unfortunately, i've somehow lost 1 important file in the transfer.... and 2 others seemed to have disappeared due to random M$ windows f*ckery. 

the file that got lost can be rebuilt.  the other 2 files are Heaven and Earth Design patterns, which I got so darned long ago i doubt they even have records back that far.  So I'm going to re-buy them.... and 2 more for shopping therapy. :)  the one pattern i was planning on starting this fall - i wanted to tackle my first HAED, so.  But looking at my schedule, I may have to delay that; i hope not, but...

i've also got bifocals this year.  i'm actually excited because i'll be able to see to thread the needle again without *removing* my glasses - which i then have to put back on to read the pattern, lol.

I'm trying to more actively tackle household things and etc... the list does not seem to end, but hopefully, soon... there'll be a break-point where i can just chill and stitch for a while.

i finally found the key to autumn garden this year!  it's 'dig out the top half of the container, refill with fresh dirt and potting mix, and miracle-grow the heck outta that sh*t', lol.  but I've got 4 varieties of squash - butternut, buttercup, acorn, and seminole - growing, and beets growing.  only one small carrot though.  I'm interested how this will play out.

that's all for now.

don't be a boog(i)er, and back up your files appropriately...

-bs
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For those of you who follow me, and have been wondering how I'm doing -

1) I'm sorry I don't post very much ever. 

2) I'm officially in remission - on monitoring for at least a while.  Close at first, of course.  Mom and I celebrated by going to see Captain Marvel.  Good movie.

3)Thanks to everyone who's kept me in their prayers, rituals, or just the occasional thought.  I can't tell you how much I appreciate it - but it's a heck of a whole lot.

-boogieshoes

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Well, it's that time of year where I see how things have gone last year....  note that for most of the text below, the black text is actually coded black, not 'automatic' - some weird thing about the html means when i highlight and hit 'automatic', the color isn't changing... so just an fyi.
I feel like I did more this year... )

-boogieshoes, the busy

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I started the 2017 list with a wish that things would get better - that obviously happened, especially with regards to health!  So, this is the 2018 list:


HOUSEHOLD MAINTENANCE
yet another maintaining maintainer )

The items I'm specifying this year will help with the heating and cooling bills.  And since I'm in the middle of organizing and downsizing - this can only help, hah.

HOUSEHOLD UPDATES

improvement things )



GARDEN PLANS

my garden is *quite* contrary, thank you! )

The iron bit is actually almost done - need to drive the last bit to the recycle place and get it totally done.


LANDSCAPING

... is being worked on )

SCA SKILL SETS

i still need some, heh )



STITCHING GALLERY
this list is actually smaller this year! )




FANNISH ENDEAVORS
and i'm trying to get this list smaller... )



PERSONAL ADMINISTRATION

is being administered )



HEALTH MAINTENANCE

is being attempted... )



FURNITURE PROJECTS

this section resides in OZ, I'm pretty sure... )




WISHING THESE WISHES WERE MINE

So does this one.... )


For me, the big things this year are: electronic organization, weight reduction now that my body's not fighting me, and working on archery.  Which of course means I have to get the archery stuff out in the yard to practice!  I'll get there....

-boogieshoes, the busy

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