I suspect that your "problem" with Barflies, is that they are NOT treating you as a stereotypical "normal woman." (I.e. the Faints at the idea of guns and self defense.) They are seeing you as: a fellow fan, a fellow geek, and finally a woman. (Normal process is woman, geek, fan, for many "men.")
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Date: 2014-06-08 02:32 pm (UTC)